As Jack Ma Said: 

In this world, there are 3 kind of people that we no need to bother them:
1) People who do not have dreams
2) People who have a a lot of excuses
3) People who can't make their own decision

All of them are willing to be abuse by the reality but they're regret. But they're not willing to change because of painful.

If you're not changing will be more crucial beat by environment, economy & people.

If you're still don't want to change, people willing to help you also cannot.

Therefore, as human being, we need to change and adapt with the environment, technology, people and forget about the pass. Live with your conscious mind, and make the decision most benefited yourself